Bringing back date night

Tuesday

Michael and I have been married for almost 3 years now. We have 1 child and we are days away from delivering our 2nd bundle of joy. With that being said, date night has turned into a thing of the past.

Between chasing our wild child, keeping up with the Army life and anticipating the arrival of our next kid, we don't have a lot of time on our hands. It's become very apparent recently that Momma and Dad could use a night out. Not a crazy night out or anything, just a night to ourselves to have an adult conversation about something other than diapers, what's for dinner, or what the next weeks schedule looks like.

Here is a list of a few date night idea's that are cheap (or free!) to help bring back date night.



1. Netflix Night In {FREE!} - Netflix is a valued thing in this house, but mostly to watch Jake and the Neverland Pirates. We rarely have the chance to watch an adult movie, or follow a series that we enjoy. I can't even begin to tell you how nice it is to cuddle up on my own couch, wearing my favorite sweatpants with my husband and enjoying an adult movie together. It's truly a relaxing way to spend some quality time with your spouse!

2. Drive-In Movie - Drive-in films are a cool experience. Not every town has a drive-in theater, but do a little research to see if there is one near you. It's so fun to pack up the car, bring your favorite snacks and drinks, and sit outside beneath the stars and get out of the house with your loved one! If you haven't been to a drive-in movie, it's worth the trip!

3. Day at the park {FREE!} - Sometimes dates can take place in the afternoon, and if you are looking for a day date, this is the way to go! Take a walk around the park and take in the view, grab a few bikes and exercise together, or grab a bench and talk. Have a picnic outside and enjoy some sunshine. There are so many things that you can do at the park!

4. Have a Picnic - This could tie in with #3, but having a picnic, no matter where you have it, can be a fun way to relax and talk to your spouse. Picnic's are so fun, and can even be a surprise date if your looking to add a little spark to the date!

5. 21 Questions {FREE!} - Create a list of 21 questions that you want to ask your spouse, and have them do the same thing, then spend the night asking one another questions. This is such a great way to get to know a little bit more about your spouse, share your dreams and thoughts, and improve your marriage.

6. Make a Meal Night - Pick a night and a meal and make it with your spouse. Many towns offer cooking classes that you can participate in, or you could head to the grocery store together to grab the ingredients of your favorite meal and make it together at home! Michael and I do homemade pizza night a lot, and we have so much fun making our own pizza's in our kitchen while the kids are asleep.

7. Ice Cream Date - This is a little traditional, but I love ice cream, so it's always a win for me. Spend an hour or 2 in the ice cream parlor enjoying your favorite flavors and having adult conversation. Even an hour together can really add a new life to your marraige.

8. Scavenger Hunt - Plan a fun scavenger hunt for your loved one. Pick some of their favorite things to hide, and create clues to lead them to the items. This can be a fun surprise, and a way to let your spouse know that you are thinking of them, and appreciate them for what they do!

9. Dinner Date - Of course. How could this not be on here? Sometime's is so nice to have a nice meal cooked for you, dress up, and spend an evening having a drink with your spouse. Hire a good babysitter and treat yourselves!

10. Art Date - A lot of towns have some type of ceramics shop or craft stores that have classes where you can create something together. Michael and I have went to our local ceramics shop before to spend some time together and you get a fun gift out of it. It's super fun to create something together!

Here is my list of dates that work for us! Most of them are super cheap or free, and they are things that we would recommend. It's important to spend quality time together, so get out there and bring date night back!

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